As a mahu, if you are one, (and not just a Yank making it up) you don't conform to the cultural types found in the West. You can't adduce cultural forms not found in the West to explain Western ones, sorry.
I've never known an AGP to 'woodwork', they just don't pass well enough to do it. HSTS do, though, enthusiastically.
'Mansplaining'. And of course the ad hominem.